Bully-Proofing Made Easy
Trainer: Israel "Izzy" Kalman
Introductory and Background Information 30 Minutes
The suffering caused by bullying
What is bullying?
Examining our attitudes regarding bullying
Problems with anti-bullying programs and laws
How this approach is different
A psychological explanation of the Golden Rule 10 Minutes
Why we’re biologically programmed for reciprocity
Why reciprocity can cause problems in civilization
How the Golden Rule takes advantage of reciprocity to
create win/win situations
Eight rules for treating people like friends rather than 20 Minutes
enemies
Teaching kids how not to be victims 90 Minutes
The power of role-playing
(Role-plays will be conducted with participant volunteers)
- How to handle insults
- How to handle racial, sexual and gender orientation
slurs
- How to handle physical aggression and threats
- How to stop rumors
- How to handle social exclusion
- How to handle possessions taken
- How to handle cyberbullying
- How to improve relationships with siblings
- How to handle angry teachers and parents 5 Minutes
How to Help Bullies 10 Minutes
Laughter, the Best Medicine 5 Minutes
The poorly recognized nature of humor
Why humor is necessary for resilience, happiness and
good relationships
Three important rules for using humor
A simple approach to responding with humor
Resilience Development Game
WHEN THESE APPROACHES DON’T WORK 10 Minutes
Who it doesn’t work with
When to inform the authorities
When to switch a child’s school
Q&A